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Oppi Stoep
4 min readJan 23, 2025

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A change of heart is not as easy a change of mind, or is it the other way around?

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The Highveld mornings are, in the words of the elder housemate, crisp. As are the late evenings. Of which there are more than a handful. And enriching ones at that. The elder housemate being a well-read and travelled human-shaped being with a razor sharp mind. Always a deadly combination and all the more engaging, when paired with an easy-going sense of humour. Still for all the mind engagements and the pack of mutts of questionable heritage hanging about, it’s a stretch to feel ‘home’. Which if you are a regular at Oppi Stoep might be a startling if not sudden turn of events from a self-professed traveller with no fixed abode. Oh dear, do I feel a change of heart looming?

At least not a literal change of heart; the current ticker, ticking along nicely despite my best efforts to trip it up with roll-ups, late nights and self-made anxieties about all the things I have absolutely no control over. Lucky me; for having this forgiving ticker that still plays along with what might be described as a rather random life over the past few years of being an itinerant.

According to a (now former) friend, itinerants tend to live shorter lives than settled folk with the nuclear family, mutts and assorted detritus that comes with being a modern nuclear family unit. I can see how this assertion get’s…

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Oppi Stoep
Oppi Stoep

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